MOOD  MANAGEMENT


SUCCESS UNDER YOUR SKIN

 

            The following is a short excerpt from Megan Johntz’ workshop on Mood Management for corporations and organizations wanting to improve their most valuable commodity - their people.

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           A recent survey found 36% of workplace violence was caused by marital or relationship issues; 24% of workplace violence was caused by stress of the job or stress from co-worker strife, and only 18% of violent acts at work were due to being fired. American workers are often on the edge, and unskilled at managing their emotions well.

Those who have mastered their moods, are shining, and rising to the upper levels of corporate America, but there seems to be a huge gap between those people and the majority of employees in a given company.

Imagine the success of an organization able to say about each employee that he or she is emotionally mature, able to take criticism well, take responsibility for their mistakes, look for creative solutions benefiting the whole company instead of becoming territorial for one department, and on and on. That’s the company able to survive and prosper in this fiercely competitive age.

So let’s take a look at what to do with these troublesome emotions. Pay attention to each tool you learn, for they translate into your family life as well as they do at work.

 

Feeling basics:

  • We are always feeling - 24 hours a day.

  • We are inherently capable of the full range of feelings.

  • Feelings are personal facts that become reports on our emotional state when shared.

  • Appropriate expression of feelings enhances intimacy in relationships.

  • Feelings don't kill, however not expressing feelings can.

  • We are each responsible for our own feelings and their expression.

  • There is no bad emotion in and of itself. What you do with that feeling when it comes is what either helps or hurts the situation, others, or yourself.

Trouble emotions:

  • anger

  • fear

  • sadness

 

Physiology of feelings

            Feelings are simply a chemical dump in your body, which in turn creates many physical and mental reactions that we have come to label with the terms “anger” or “happiness”, etc. These chemicals running around in your bloodstream do some very helpful things (extra adrenaline during a crisis helps you fight back or flee), but when misunderstood and mismanaged, they can build up and be detrimental to your very physical health. In the seven years or so that I’ve been studying emotions and health, I’ve run across many studies indicating a build up of these emotions - these chemicals - may be linked to serious health problems.

            The following list is simply what Megan Johntz has come across in seven years, so I’m sure there are other studies out there that I just haven’t had time to investigate. You probably have heard of some other physical ailment associated with anger, or depression, etc. So take my partial list, and then keep an ear open during the nightly news, as researchers are finding new correlations between emotional distress and physical health every day.

            As I write this, today a study was reported in the Journal of the American Medical Association citing childhood trauma - emotional scars from mom and dad divorcing or childhood abuse - making it more likely that person will smoke, and have a harder time quitting than someone who did not suffer major childhood trauma.

            Please remember back to your horrendous statistics class, and know that just because two things (i.e.: anger mismanagement and the growth rate of cancer) seem to exist together, it doesn’t mean one causes the other. We always need more research. So all of that said, the following is a list of studies I’ve come across that associate mismanaged feelings with physical ailments.

 

Migraine Headaches

Arthritis

Degenerative Joint Disease

Incontinence

Low Back Pain

Sleep Disturbances

Gout

Obesity

Higher Mortality Rate

Bulimia

Anorexia

Hypertension

Lupus

Upper Respiratory Infection

Epstein Barr

Large Bowel Cancer

Cardiovascular Disease

TMJ

Teeth Grinding

Irritable Bowel Syndrome

Colitis

Smoking

Alcoholism

Prescription Drug Abuse

Depression

Low Self-Esteem

Assertiveness Difficulties

Low Social Support

Panic Attacks

Obsessive Compulsive Disorder

Phobias

 

 

During the workshop, participants explore areas such as:

  • What do I do with anger, sadness, and fear?

  • How do I handle a co-worker who is definitely not managing his or her emotions well?

  • How do I teach my kids or encourage my employees toward emotional maturity?

  • Why would I not notice a feeling - learn to disconnect?

  • How can building self-awareness of anger, increase peace?

  • How can my head help my heart, which ultimately improves the work of my hands?

  • How can not waking up refreshed effect my emotions, and what are the top 5 tools for getting a good night’s sleep?

  • How does the food on my plate effect my emotions?

  • What’s all this I hear about light bulbs making me happy?

  • Does exercise really make me less stressed?

  • What’s the role of humor? Is laughter really the best medicine?

 

 

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